Get clear on what you want.
The first thing you need to do is get clear on what you want. What does your ideal relationship look like? What is your must haves? What are your deal-breakers? Once you understand what you’re looking for, you can begin the manifestation process.
What qualities do you want in a partner?
When thinking about what you want in a partner, it’s important to be clear and specific. This will help you attract the right person into your life.
Some things to consider include the following:
-What qualities do you value most in a partner?
-What kind of relationship are you looking for?
-What are your deal-breakers?
Once you understand what you’re looking for, you can start manifesting them into your life.
What kind of relationship do you want?
When trying to manifest something (or someone) back into your life, it’s important to get clear on what you want. After all, you can’t attract what you don’t want.
Do you want a casual relationship? A friends-with-benefits situation? A committed, long-term relationship? Something else entirely?
Be as specific as possible. The more specific you are, the easier it will be to attract what you want. And once you have it, it will be easier to maintain it.
Get rid of the baggage
You can do a few things to increase the chances of your ex-boyfriend returning to you. One of the most important things is to get rid of the baggage that may be holding you back. This includes negative thoughts, feelings, or behaviors that keep you from being your best version. When you let go of this baggage, you make yourself more attractive to your ex and increase his chances of returning to you.
Forgive him for what he did
Forgive him for what he did. Permit yourself to forgive him, and then do it. What’s done is done, and holding onto anger and resentment will only poison your heart and mind. To move forward, you must let go of the past.
Forgive yourself for what you did
Packed with disbelief, you read the text message over and over again. How could he say those things to you? You’ve been through so much together! And after all you’ve done for him, he dumps you out of the blue like that? The hurt and anger you feel are overwhelming, and right now, all you want to do is curl up in a ball and hide away from the world.
But if you want to manifest him coming back, first, you need to forgive yourself for what you did.
It doesn’t matter how much he hurt you or how angry you are with him – holding onto that pain will only hurt you more in the long run. So, let go of the hurt and anger and start moving forward.
Yes, what he did was wrong. But it’s in the past now, and dwelling on it isn’t going to change anything. So forgive yourself for what happened, and then let it go.
Let go of the pain and hurt
We’ve all been there before. We’ve been hurt so badly by someone we thought we loved that it feels impossible ever to let go of the pain and hurt. But to manifest him returning, you must let go of that pain and hurt.
I know it’s easier said than done. I know it feels like holding onto the pain is what’s keeping him alive in your heart. But trust me, it’s not. All it’s doing is holding you back from finding true happiness.
It’s time to let go of the baggage and start living your life again. It’s time to release the hurt and pain so you can open yourself up to new possibilities. So how do you do that? Here are a few tips:
- Acknowledge the pain. Don’t try to bottle it down or ignore it. Please acknowledge that you’re in pain and that it hurts. This is the first step to healing.
- Forgive yourself. Forgive yourself and know that you deserve better treatment than what you received. Don’t beat yourself up for getting hurt or not seeing the signs sooner.
3 Move on. It’s time to focus on yourself and start living your life again. Fill your days with things that make you happy—activities, people, places, etc.—and watch as the pain dissipates each day.
Raise your vibration
The first step to making him come back is to raise your vibration. This means that you need to take care of yourself emotionally and physically. Work on yourself and make sure you are happy with who you are. The happier you are, the more likely he is to come back.
Start your day with meditation (DO NOT SKIP THIS). It doesn’t have to be crazy; you can sit silently for 5-10 minutes and focus on your breath. This will help keep the monkey’s mind and get you into a more receptive state for the rest of the day.
During your meditation, it’s important to a visualization what it is that you want. If you want him back, see yourself rejoicing and celebrating this reunion. See him coming back to you with open arms, ready to apologize and make things right. Feel the love between you two, and let that image fill your mind for the entirety of your meditation.
To begin, find a quiet, comfortable place to sit or lie down. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths, allowing your body to relax. Once you’re feeling calm, begin to visualize the person you want to attract back into your life. See them in your mind’s eye, looking happy and healthy. Visualize yourself talking to them, laughing, and spending time together. See the two of you enjoying each other’s company and being happy together. Please spend a few minutes visualizing this scene, then let it go for now.
Do things that make you happy
To raise your vibration, you must do things that make you feel good. This can be anything from taking a long bath to going on a nature hike. When you make time for activities that make you happy, you naturally raise your vibration. Also, surround yourself with people and things that make you feel good. When surrounded by positive energy, it will be easier to maintain a high vibration.
The first step is to have faith and patience. The main thing is to keep your thoughts positive and not let any negative thoughts creep in. Second, don’t beg or plead with him to come back. The more you try to push, the more he will pull away. Just let him be and give him some space. Lastly, don’t try to control the situation or him. The more you try to control them, the more he will resist. Let the Universe take its course, and trust everything will work out.
Trust that the Universe will deliver
When trying to manifest your ex back, the most important thing to remember is to trust that the Universe will deliver. There’s no need to try to force anything or make it happen. Just be patient and keep faith that everything will work out.
Whatever you want to manifest in your life, whether it’s a relationship, a job, or anything else, it’s important to have faith. This means believing what you want is possible and trusting that the Universe will provide it.
Of course, this can be easier said than done, especially if you’ve been disappointed in the past or don’t currently see any evidence that your desires will come to fruition. However, it’s important to remember that manifestation is a process and that results may not happen overnight.
So if you want to manifest him coming back into your life, here are some things you can do:
-Visualize what you want: See yourself already in a happy, committed relationship with him. Visualize all the details about this relationship – where you are, what you’re doing, how he feels about you. The more specific and realistic your visualization, the better.
-Feel the feelings: To attract what you want, it’s important to feel happy and excited about it, as if it’s already happening. So although it may not be happening right now in your physical reality, feel as though it is by imagining how good it will feel when he does come back into your life.
-Take action: While visualization and positive thinking are important components of manifestation, they won’t work unless you take action towards your goals. This could mean reaching out to him directly or indirectly (through mutual friends) or taking steps in your own life, such as working on yourself and building your confidence.
-Release your attachment: One of the most common mistakes people make when trying to manifest something is getting attached to a particular outcome. This can make it harder to let go of negative thoughts and feelings that may prevent what you want from coming into your life. Instead of fixating on how things should be different, focus on accepting things and having faith that what you desire will eventually come to fruition.
Doing nothing and wishing your ex will come back to you is not going to work. You have to take action and make it happen. The first step is to speak to him and make sure that there is still a chance for the two of you to get back together. If he is not receptive to the idea, you can try some other tips in this article.
Put yourself out there
Being single can be hard, especially if you’re used to being in a relationship. But there are things you can do to make the transition smoother. Getting back out there and dating is one of them.
Dating can be nerve-wracking, but it’s also a great way to meet new people and expand your social circle. You might find your next boyfriend! When ready, put yourself out there and see who you meet.
Here are some tips for getting back into the dating game:
- Make a list of what you want in a partner. This will help you narrow the dating pool to only those compatible with you.
- Join a dating site or app. This will give you access to a larger pool of potential dates.
- Get involved in social activities. This is a great way to meet new people, including potential dates.
- Be confident and go after what you want. Don’t be afraid to make the first move or ask someone out on a date.
- Go on dates
- If you want to manifest him returning, you must date other people. This will not only make you feel better about yourself, but it will also give him something to think about. This will make him realize what he is missing, and he will also start to miss you. He will see that you are moving on and happy without him.
- Be open to possibilities.
Don’t close yourself off to the idea of him coming back. If you truly want him back in your life, then you need to be open to the possibility that it could happen. This doesn’t mean that you should get your hopes up or start planning your future together, but it does mean that you should be open to the idea that things could work out between the two of you.
You can’t manifest something if you’re not open to the possibility of it happening. So if you want him back, ensure you’re keeping yourself open to the possibility of it happening. Who knows? Maybe he’s feeling the same way and is just waiting for you to make the first move.